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I have a university orientation tomorrow at five am but really, I just got home from watching DBL at ten pm, just now (laughs)

I AM SUPER HAPPY THAT I DECIDED TO WATCH THE MATCH.

Not only because the match was super exciting and amazing but also because I got someone to watch with me. He was cute omg

Anyway, the game between Smasa Blitar versus Kosayu was superb, you totally could not predict thing. At one time Smasa lead, then Kosayu, then Smasa again and it loop. But really, it was super cool. They made a 40 minutes game to almost three hours. Yeah, that made me stand for three hours because all the seats are full, literally, not even an inch of free space.

The bad side was, I could not watch the dances :((( Because the person I'm going with was kinda late picking me up and I can't go inside because the whole supporters of Kosayu are not allowed to enter and they were blocking the gate (cries) BUT MY JUNIORS WON THE DANCE COMPETITION THO SO IT WAS GREAT. OH AND ALSO MY SCHOOL GOT THE AWARD FOR BEING THE BEST SUPPORTER AGAIN, FOR THE SEVENTH TIME.

Ugh, I'm so happy ❤


Today, I went to watch DBL. It's a big basketball tournament and dance competition for high school.
I was really excited. I was also there last year, on the floor, dancing with my team. That's why I'm looking forward to this event.

I went to the place where it was held together with my high school mate. Traffic jam, as predicted. But it was not really that bad. Anyway, when I reached the gym, it was packed. Full of humans. Not the amount I would like to meet. It was really hot too and I forgot to use sunscreen. The worse, it didn't fit the schedule and was delayed for like, an hour. Cool isn't it. I hate it.

When I finally got inside, it was already packed, of course. I could not even find a seat on the stand my high school was supposed to sit. So, I went and sit on the other side, which is the rival's stand so I was kinda forced to sit in the upper corner. It was not bad because I could see the whole court that way/

Turned out, it was a great decision. I could see my high school students cheering on my basketball team and it was superb. They were so unified, I love it so much. Never knew it was that loud. Good things happened again. I met my senior which I adore so much (lol). I was really happy that I could see him even though he was with his girlfriend.

But, the match, it was somehow disappointing. Not because they lost, but because I didn't feel the bonds. It was not a good game. I am an outsider, never played basketball before nor I understand about this sport. But I know which one is a good team and which one is not. My boys were not good enough. They looked confused. They looked like they don't know what they are doing. They seemed rushed. My favorite boy too didn't look like himself. He seemed down, not like his usual kinda fast-aggressive play. 

The opposing team, they were great. But, not that great. They were like, kinda on par with my boys, only a slightly better. But they got teamwork and also they somehow emitting dangerous. It felt like they were monsters stopping on rabbits. It was a chaos.

On the other side, the girls were cool. They danced their hearts out. I could not even find the miss, it was fantastic. I could feel their aura. The theme was vampire and they could bring out the scary atmosphere. Their expression was wonderful too, I could not blink my eyes. They succeeded. A standing applause for my girls.

I went home during the blackout of the second game. The gym sucks. Two technical electricity mistakes and a lot of flaws on the court. Really, holding this event here is such a great mistake. Not only the place is small, also the facilities are lacking. 

Anyway, even though my friends said that it would be hard for them to advance in the match, I still wish at least they still could maintain their position and advance to fantastic four. It would be nice if you boys listen to your coach and start to depend on each other. Basketball is a team play, not a me play, okay? For the dancer, I'm positive you all can go to Arena! Just keep your spirit and go slay them all!

It was a pity that the buzzer beater didn't happen even though it was really close to happen but good luck, everyone! 



xoxo

With a ton of loves and supports from your alumna, Inggum.



At what age do you want to marry? It would be around 27-ish for me. Or it could be anytime when I found the love of my life who could feed me for at least 1000 years and gave me freedom 24/7 to do things I like. Or it's JC Chasez or Fukushi Sota who proposed to me.

Actually, I write this because of this phenomena in my social media life, a 17 years old boy marrying a girl that only turned 20. Well, he is a son of a famous ustadz so, probably that's why the government allowed it even though a man needs to be at least 19 to marry in this freaking crazy country.

I hate how this just married boy promoting  n i  k a h  m u d a. 
I don't care if he marries in such a young age, he can because looks like he is prepared financially and maybe mentally idk and he got his ustadz father backing him up, but please don't freaking promote it.

"Early marriage is good so you could avoid zinah"

FUCK YOU AND YOUR TWISTED LOGIC AND YOUR INABILITY TO RESIST YOUR DESIRE.

Marriage is not only about legal sex by God, okay????????? It takes a lot of things. Actually you can always have a romantic relationship without any sexual desire, really. If your sexual drive is really that much, then try to calm it down. Resist it, don't be a jerk. Or just satisfy it with your hands or those toys available online.

And what I hate the most is he and those islamic accounts that promoting ta'aruf. Yeah, the freaking traditional one. Fuck you. Going out for years still won't promise you a happy marriage and you tell us to only know our partner from story only??? Where's the logic, bruh? It's 2k16 AD not 2k16 BC.

"You can get to know of your partner during the marriage"

AND WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF (S)HE WERE A PSYCHO WHO ABUSED YOU 24/7???
This bigotry really needs to stop.


Anyway, I don't believe in the happiness of marriage. I believe in the sorrowfulness of marriage. Well, it's not that I don't want to marry. I want to marry, only if I am ready to accept all of those sorrowfulness. Physically and mentally. Oh, and of course financially.
Marriage could be fun, happy, lovely, but that could only last for a moment. The only left are: responsibility, commitment and of course, a lot of troubles and pains.

I could say that I never found a perfect married couple. Everyone's marriage suck. My parent's especially. Maybe that's why I don't like the idea of   m a r r i a g e.

Actually, living together with my boyfriend is enough for me.


Conclusion:

Please
Don't
Marry
in
Such
a
Young
Age


I am using Indonesian because I need to nyampah.




Sebentar lagi, kurang lebihh sebulan lagi sih, aku bakal menjadi seorang mahasiswa. Tidak, aku tidak akan mempermasalahkan tentang istilah "maha-siswa", meski sejujurnya aku ingin. Namun bukan itu yang ingin kubicarakan di post ini.

Aku sedang ingin membahas tentang "Orientasi Studi dan Pengenalan Kampus" atau lebih sering kita kenal dengan OSPEK.

Sampai saat ini aku masih mempertanyakan tentang esensi dari sebuah kegiatan yang bernama ospek ini. Selama ini aku hanya pernah mendapatkan pengalaman dari MOS (Masa Orientasi Sekolah) saat SMP dan MPLS (Masa Pengenalan Lingkungan Sekolah) saat SMA. MOS SMP-ku jujur, sangat tidak terstruktur dan tidak berkesan. MPLS? Wow, sangat berkesan namun yah, seandainya dikemas tanpa pressing kurasa esensinya akan lebih terasa. Karena tugas-tugas yang diberikan sebenarnya benar-benar beresensi namun mungkin karena waktu yang terbatas jadi tidak bisa maksimal.

Kali ini, masa orientasi sebagai syarat untuk menjadi mahasiswa. Okelah, wajar tugasnya banyak, kan sudah mahasiswa. Tidak masalah kok tugas-tugasnya berupa entah berapa banyak esai, karena meski sebenarnya tidak berguna untuk saat itu hitung-hitung untuk latihan mengerjakan tugas kuliah nantinya.

Tapi, tunggu. Bukannya tugas seperti itu seharusnya dikerjakan sendiri ya? Menggunakan otak serta tangan masing-masing individu. Namun, kenapa ada kakak-kakak tingkat yang jualan tugas ospek ya?

Oh mungkin, itu cara baru untuk mencari bahan pressing. Mereka mendata siapa-siapa saja yang membeli jasa tersebut dan menandai nama-nama itu.

Eh, tapi kok yang jualan peralatan ospek banyak ya? Masa sudah ada lima akun yang menampakkan dirinya di instagramku.  L i m a loh l i ma. Kalau satu atau dua sih tidak aneh, karena mungkin memang sesuai pradugaku di atas, tapi kalau sampai lima (atau mungkin lebih) akun? Pasti ada yang tidak beres.

Tentu saja, para oknum ini sudah beroperasi sejak entah berapa lama, aku tidak tahu, tapi yang jelas, sudah cukup lama. Namun, masih tetap saja ada. Mereka bahkan berani memajang testimoni-testimoni di akun instagram mereka. W O W.

Aku tidak habis pikir.

Apa iya, ospek sekarang tidak hanya sebagai sarana untuk memperkenalkan maba kepada universitas namun juga sebagai lahan untuk mencari uang?

Oh mungkin itu mengapa banyak sekali tugas yang diberikan.
Biar kating dapat uang jajan banyak juga.




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