At what age do you want to marry? It would be around 27-ish for me. Or it could be anytime when I found the love of my life who could feed me for at least 1000 years and gave me freedom 24/7 to do things I like. Or it's JC Chasez or Fukushi Sota who proposed to me.
Actually, I write this because of this phenomena in my social media life, a 17 years old boy marrying a girl that only turned 20. Well, he is a son of a famous ustadz so, probably that's why the government allowed it even though a man needs to be at least 19 to marry in this freaking crazy country.
I hate how this just married boy promoting n i k a h m u d a.
I don't care if he marries in such a young age, he can because looks like he is prepared financially and maybe mentally idk and he got his ustadz father backing him up, but please don't freaking promote it.
"Early marriage is good so you could avoid zinah"
FUCK YOU AND YOUR TWISTED LOGIC AND YOUR INABILITY TO RESIST YOUR DESIRE.
Marriage is not only about legal sex by God, okay????????? It takes a lot of things. Actually you can always have a romantic relationship without any sexual desire, really. If your sexual drive is really that much, then try to calm it down. Resist it, don't be a jerk. Or just satisfy it with your hands or those toys available online.
And what I hate the most is he and those islamic accounts that promoting ta'aruf. Yeah, the freaking traditional one. Fuck you. Going out for years still won't promise you a happy marriage and you tell us to only know our partner from story only??? Where's the logic, bruh? It's 2k16 AD not 2k16 BC.
"You can get to know of your partner during the marriage"
AND WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF (S)HE WERE A PSYCHO WHO ABUSED YOU 24/7???
This bigotry really needs to stop.
Anyway, I don't believe in the happiness of marriage. I believe in the sorrowfulness of marriage. Well, it's not that I don't want to marry. I want to marry, only if I am ready to accept all of those sorrowfulness. Physically and mentally. Oh, and of course financially.
Marriage could be fun, happy, lovely, but that could only last for a moment. The only left are: responsibility, commitment and of course, a lot of troubles and pains.
I could say that I never found a perfect married couple. Everyone's marriage suck. My parent's especially. Maybe that's why I don't like the idea of m a r r i a g e.
Actually, living together with my boyfriend is enough for me.
Conclusion:
Please
Don't
Marry
in
Such
a
Young
Age
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